Matt has been married for 12 years and has two kids with his wife. When they first got married, they agreed that she would be the stay at home mom. Matt recently worked his way up at his job and got a raise, but that’s when his wife started to do less. She’s been doing less cleaning and cooking, doesn’t want to home school the kids anymore, she’s even spending less time with the kids in general. Matt has suggested marriage counseling, but she doesn’t seem interested. What should Matt do?