Marriage is hard. You don't have to be married for long to know that much, I'm only two years in and I am well aware. So what are the keys to a happy one? Again, I'm not a seasoned pro by any means, but a couple of my nominees would be: Allowing each other to be their authentic selves, and loving them for it. Also, always go to bed mad. I mean, not literally every night. I'm just saying that the old advice "Never go to bed mad" that you get from your aunt on your wedding day is trash. My belief (and it's worked well) is that if you're in an argument at night, the best solution is to just go to bed. You'll almost always wake up with more clarity on the situation, have less anger, and just an overall better outlook. Plus you'll be sober, which is crucial.
A new poll was done to find what the top signs of a happy couple are, and they are:
1. Spending lots of quality time together.
2. Taking care of each other when you're sick.
3. Feeling like you can be yourself with them.
4. Encouraging them to pursue their own hobbies and interests.
5. You let them see you at your best, and worst.
6. Cuddling.
7. Being respectful to them in front of other people.
8. Making regular plans together.
9. Being proud of their achievements.
10. Being silly with each other.
I agree with all of these. Especially number 10. It makes it so easy to be around one another when you can just be a total goofball and not worry about being judged.
Do you agree with the top 10? Drop a comment and let me know if we missed one!