I made a mistake asking a friend to be a bridesmaid and I really want it to be someone else now. Is it ever okay to un-ask a bridesmaid?

Wedding planning is a special kind of stress and that makes it hard to think clearly and be confident in all your decision-making. Lots of people will tell you after the fact that they wish they had made different choices. Reversing course on a bridesmaid decision is particularly angsty.