Forever is a Long Time

Forever is a Long Time

Forever is a Long Time

CATEGORY: Society & Culture
When Ian Coss decided to get married, every living member of his family who had ever been married had also gotten divorced: parents, grandparents, and all his aunts and uncles on both sides — some of them twice. Today, he has questions: What is the value of a lifetime commitment? Are we doomed to recycle the patterns of behavior we get from our ancestors? Are we all just better off alone? Forever is a Long Time is a five episode series that weaves reflection and original music through Ian’s conversations with his wife and divorced family members — a look at love with people who have made mistakes.
  1. July 26, 2021
    3 min
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    Trailer: "Forever is a Long Time"
    When I decided to get married, every living member of my family who had ever been married had also gotten divorced. Apparently, I thought my marriage would end differently.
  2. August 05, 2021
    31 min
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    Part 1: My Parents, Ellen and Tom
    My parents divorced when I was eight years old — young enough that I don’t have a lot of clear memories of it, but old enough that I was definitely watching, listening, and learning. So I asked them both to tel…
  3. August 05, 2021
    35 min
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    Part 2: My Grandmother, Marianne
    My grandmother never sent presents for birthdays or holidays, and didn't expect us to either. She seemed to resist anything that felt like authority, convention and tradition; which is why it's so strange that…
  4. August 05, 2021
    32 min
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    Part 3: Aunt Mia and Uncle Paul
    The idea of a lifetime commitment can feel impossible, when it can still fall apart in year 20, or year 30, or 35. My own parents’ marriage never made it that far, but some of my aunts and uncles did, only to f…
  5. August 05, 2021
    29 min
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    Part 4: Uncle Eric
    Most divorces in my family bring some sense of relief. It may take three years to get there, or it may take thirty years, but once it’s over, it feels pretty clear that this is for the best. But it’s not so cle…
  6. August 05, 2021
    32 min
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    Part 5: Aunt Rari
    My aunt Rari divorced her husband so completely and so long ago that I don’t even know the man’s name. She tells me that story and about the life she built without him. It makes me contemplate the value of a li…
  7. June 16, 2022
    6 min
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