Rocky & Lissa Audio: BBQ Dilemma

Hey Rocky & Lissa!
Can you take a listener poll? My wife & I are having a BBQ this weekend, just a few friends. In the past we’ve invited our neighbors but we’re not super close w them and they always bring their KIDS (9 & 11). I don’t want to invite them this time - just so I can have fun w my friends and not worry about toning everything down cuz there are children present. Am I evil? My wife says we’ve always invited them in the past so this’ll look rude. Please pick a side! Thx