There's a science to everything, even they way you sit on the couch with your significant other.
A study of 2,000 adults by sofa and carpet specialist ScS sought to find the most popular sitting position for couples, and body language expert Dr Georgina Barnett revealed what each position really means.
Sitting on different sofas
This is more common for long-term couples, and is the most popular way to sit by far. Dr. Barnett says, "It does not necessarily indicate any problems, but rather a couple that has grown used to each other over the years."
Legs on the lap
While it does seem like a relaxing way to sit, Dr. Barnett warns it could mean something more. She says, "Whoever has their legs on their partner is the one in control. The person with their legs over their partner is to some degree demanding attention and has the dominant position – possibly in the relationship, as well as in the moment."
Sitting side-by-side, but not touching or cuddling
This shows a "happy and contented couple," according Dr. Barnett. She says, "They may not be in the first flush of passion, but they are connected and seeking to maintain contact with each other."
Opposite sides of the couch
This can indicate some "frostiness" in the relationship, with Dr. Barnett saying this could mean a couple has "detached."
Cuddling in the corner
This may seem very loving, but Dr. Barnett says couples sitting this way could ahve underlying power struggles. She says, "The person spread out in the corner is owning the space, suggesting confidence and power in the relationship. The partner in the middle however, might be less secure and is seeking contact and reassurance - literally clinging on."
Cuddling in the middle
Dr. Barnett says this is the "holy grail" of couch-sitting, explaining, "There is equality in this relationship and a real connection – the main focus of being on the sofa is togetherness. This is often found early in a relationship where there is more of a need for assurance, and the passion is still very strong!"
Corner cuddling with tucked legs
This also can indicate a power struggle in the relationship. Dr. Barnett says, "The one with their legs tucked is generally drawing comfort in some way. As with the earlier cuddling couple, the person in the corner tends to be the stronger one in the relationship, and the partner more submissive. This position is sometimes seen when one is insecure in a partnership, as they are to some extent adopting a fetal position."
Via The Sun
