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Poll: Savage or Sensible - Denying an Invite to Be in Someone's Wedding

Vote on today's savage or sensible poll!

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Have something you want to throw on to the savage scale? Reach out to us like this listener did...

"Hey guys! There's something I'm thinking about doing that already has me feeling really guilty and I want to know if you think it would be savage to do. I got the heads up from a friend, that our mutual friend who I'm somewhat close with, is going to be asking us to be bridesmaids in her wedding next year. It's not that I dislike her, in fact I'm honored she'd even ask, but when it comes down to it I just don't want to be in her wedding. I'll happily attend and celebrate her and her fiancé, but at this point I've been in so many weddings I just dread being asked this question. I feel like if I deny her request, she'll be devastated and the last thing I want to do is hurt her feelings. But I also REALLY don't want to do everything that comes with being a bridesmaid. What do you think!?"


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Vote on today's savage or sensible poll!