Is your partner shy when it comes to trying new things sexually?
Lazurus reccomends the following:
1. Be open and listen to your partner when talking about sex
2. Be encouraging towards your partner's masturbation habits
3. Accept the fact that your partner may watch porn
4. Ask yes or no questions when asking about your partner's desires
5. Do not pressure your partner with your sexual desires
6. Speak in a respectful way towards your partner and empower their confidence
And last, but definitely not least...
7. If your partner needs space from sex then give them space