Moving is tough for everyone, but it may be even more difficult for military kids who start the academic year by adjusting to a new school and new community.
Retired Army Brig. Gen. Mike Meese, president of Armed Forces Mutual, says there are numerous ways for military parents to help their kids adjust to their new community due to a permanent change of station move.
“Getting into a new community is always challenging, but here are several strategies that have worked well for my family,” he said. “Learn as much about the new community before arrival to emphasize unique advantages. If your kids are old enough, involve them in the research process online so they develop anticipation and excitement. Look at local attractions, parks, and activities that might interest them specifically.”
Meese also urged parents to sign their kids up for activities in their new community.
“This could include sports, scouts, church activities or other community programs,” he said.
Meese noted that most military communities experience significant turnover annually, so they are typically eager to welcome new participants.
“Remember, the primary goal is making friends, not necessarily being the star athlete or performer,” he stressed.
Meese said that if children have established interests like playing musical instruments, make sure they continue practicing during transition periods.
“We experienced this firsthand when we rented a trumpet so my son could practice all summer, which positioned him as a valuable asset to his new 8th-grade band when school began,” he said.
Military families should also establish some consistent routines that can transfer from one location to another, providing stability amid change.
“Whether it’s Friday movie nights or Sunday morning pancakes, these familiar touchpoints help children adjust,” said Meese.
Military families should also take advantage of the resources available to them during moves, such as the sponsor that their new unit will assign them. Families can also learn more about their new installation from GoMillie. Military OneSource also offers PCS planning tools and consultants.
In addition, AFM provides extensive PCS support through its dedicated resource section.
“These resources include financial planning tools, checklists, and guidance specific to military families navigating relocations and major expenses,” Meese said.
Meese also urged military families to adopt and stick to a budget when preparing for PCS moves and back-to-school shopping.
Reach Julia LeDoux at Julia@connectingvets.com.