On a lively broadcast of Let's Talk About It with the Turners, Simeon and Katrina Young joined the Couples Cafe segment, celebrating a remarkable 42 years of marriage (plus four years of dating, totaling 46 years together).
The Youngs met as college students at DeKalb Community College. Katrina recalled her first glimpse of Simeon, leaning against a wall with an Afro, satchel, and cigarette. "I looked at him and I said, that's the man I'm going to marry," she shared, describing it as love at first sight, even though they hadn't met yet. They bonded in an English class where Simeon, admittedly struggling, saw Katrina as "a little cutie pie" who could help him pass.
After 42 years, the couple remains deeply connected, crediting intentional daily efforts rather than grand gestures. Katrina emphasized paying attention to "the little things" and everyday connection, noting, "We don't go to bed angry." Simeon highlighted communication, calling Katrina his best friend, the ability to share ups, downs, and everything in between builds trust and safety.
Faith forms the foundation of their relationship. Katrina described it as the "stalwart" of their marriage, "We are a family that prays together and maybe sounds cliche, but a family that prays together stays together. But it's actually true for us."
Conflict arises, as in any long marriage, but they resolve it thoughtfully. Katrina explained they "circle the wagons," listen without dominating, build consensus, and recognize complementary roles, Simeon as the "head" with a broader 30,000-foot view, and herself as the "heart" bringing intuition and nurturing.
With five grandchildren (ranging from infants to a 10-year-old, including a cherished granddaughter who reigns as "princess"), they embrace grandparent life with joy.
The Youngs offered timeless advice, marriage is a "work in progress" requiring patience, learning, and ongoing communication. Simeon stressed that couples must "learn how to be married" and "couple together," just as one trains for any profession.
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