You might find that talking about the COVID-19 pandemic is an easy conversation, filled with stories of working from home, evenings filled with takeout from local restaurants, or perhaps reminiscing about virtual get-togethers.
On the other hand, the pandemic and shutdowns might be the last thing that you want to talk about.
“So I'd say that there's probably some middle paths there that might be the healthiest way to kind of conceptualize this time period and move forward,” says Merav Silverman, assistant professor in the department of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the University of Minnesota.
Silverman told WCCO’s Mark Freie, while not talking about it may seem like an easy way to move on, brushing the past two years of the pandemic under the rug could be a sign of post-traumatic stress disorder.
“That urge to not think about a traumatic event, to push it away, to minimize it and not going to touch it,” Silverman says are signs of post-traumatic stress.
On the other hand, the past two years might take up too much of our mental capacities.
“We know that there can be rumination or other kinds of psychiatric coping mechanisms that are unhealthy,” Silverman explains. “Maybe thinking about this incessantly or too much in a way that interferes with one's ability to get back out in the world and do the things that maybe help someone live a values based life.”
Silverman says it's about finding a middle ground.
“Allowing it to come up when it comes up, and thinking about it and maybe not holding onto it in a way that prevents someone from moving forward with their life.”
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In March of 2020, Minnesota saw Governor Tim Walz stay-at-home order take full effect. Silverman says, stay-at-home orders and the threat of serious illness or death related to in-person interactions took an immediate toll.
“Cutting out this major, major aspect of human existence, and something that is really rewarding, is really taxing from a psychiatric perspective,” Silverman told WCCO.
That immediate removal from society still has impacts two years later.
“In the sense that people have smaller social networks at this point and I think are experiencing an increase in social isolation, which comes with it all kinds of other symptoms of loneliness and depression and you know, difficulty experiencing positive emotions.”
The pandemic also brought the turning of the dial statewide, which either opened up parts of Minnesota, or closed areas like bars, restaurants and other social elements back down.
Despite the lifting of mask mandates and society reopening today, there are still decisions to be made when it comes to COVID-19 and personal health.
“We always had to make choices but I think they feel heavier now because they involved our health and the health of our children and those around us who may be more vulnerable,” says Silverman.
Silverman, who co-leads the dialectical behavioral therapy clinic in the psychiatry outpatient clinic at the University of Minnesota, says the shutdowns of March 2020 also brought some good, especially in terms of expanding telehealth.
“There were all kinds of technical difficulties and being unable to hear or see people. And at this point, two years later, it's the main way that I'm providing care.”
Silverman says adding life's everyday challenges into the course of the past two years amplifies the need to strengthen telehealth services moving forward.
“All of the other life stressors that are just a part of being a human have also gone on and some of them have gone on in higher rates, like financial worries or other kinds of things. And so I think that more people are seeking out care because there's just a lot of symptoms and potentially an increase in access that more people are able to seek out care with provisions like telehealth, and hopefully this increase in awareness may have also prompted some more people.”