If you’ve noticed that kids don’t have those old-school, must-have Christmas lists anymore, you’re not alone. Many parents and caregivers say children today seem less certain, even a little back-and-forth, about what they really want under the tree.
According to Paige Bennett-Primke, contributor for New Orleans Mom, the shift makes perfect sense.
“Gone are the days of earmarked catalogs and kids waiting all year for that one big gift,” she says.
With many children getting what they want throughout the year, she says the classic Christmas list looks very different now.
So what do you get the kid who seems to have everything? Primke says families are getting more creative and New Orleans Mom has three top recommendations.
1. Gift an Experience
Primke says experiences can be the most memorable gifts of all.
“This can be almost anything; a local indoor park, a new activity, or even a family trip to Disney World,” she explains.
The key, she says, is choosing something within your budget that creates connection, excitement, and memories.
2. Choose a Gift That Aligns With Their Goals
Instead of a random toy, Primke suggests asking kids what they’ve always wanted to learn or do.
“If your child wants to be the next Cristiano Ronaldo, a set of private soccer lessons could be the perfect gift,” she says.
Goal-based gifts help fuel passion and build confidence, making them meaningful well beyond the holidays.
3. Try a Thrifted Book Basket
This one may surprise some gift-givers.
“We’re seeing amazing results with thrifted book baskets,” Primke says.
Thrift stores often hold unique, affordable finds, and arranging them in a beautiful basket creates a thoughtful, one-of-a-kind gift.
4. Tweens and Teens? Keep It Simple
Primke says for older kids, you can’t go wrong with money.
“Gift cards, cash; those are always hits for that age group,” she notes.
And for gifts that aren’t physically under the tree, she suggests still giving them something to open.
“Pictures are great, but pair it with a small item that ties into the gift to make it feel extra special,” she says.
Something like Harry Potter pajamas if you are taking them to the latest attraction at Disney World.
As children’s wish lists evolve, Primke says the goal remains the same:
“It’s about making the holidays meaningful, joyful, and right for your family.”