Thanksgiving is a time when families and friends come together and give thanks, however, because of the hate that fuels the great American divide, many will try to avoid discussing politics at this year’s Thanksgiving gathering.
A new Quinnipiac University poll shows that 61% of voters are hoping to totally avoid talking about politics with family and friends. Another new poll from Political Avoidance shows that 51% of Gen Z will avoid going to a Thanksgiving celebration because they are afraid politics will be discusses and 38% of Millennials admit they hate going to a Thanksgiving gathering because of the possibility of political debates. Among Gen X and Boomers - 20% feel the same way.
The tradition of Thanksgiving dates back to 1621 when the new settlers from England and the Native Americans came together to give thanks for the first harvest in the New World. Historical records are sketchy, but from the documented evidence we do have a general idea about the first Thanksgiving.
The first Thanksgiving was a moment when two totally different groups came together to celebrate the first harvest. You and I go to the store when we need to get groceries, but the early settlers depended on a good harvest to survive through the winter. A good harvest meant the difference between living and dying. In 1621, there was reason to celebrate a hearty harvest.
It is Thanksgiving 2023, and we are a divided America - divided by political disagreements and hate. We are divided by politics, religion, race, gender, sexual orientation and countless other groups and we seem to be forgetting that we should all be Americans first.
Thanksgiving gatherings with family and friends can easily be marred by comments about politics. It is difficult not to talk about politics because we are all so invested in the political turmoil on a daily basis. It is a big part of who we are as individuals - and as a nation.
You can set up rules that your Thanksgiving feast is a “no politics zone,” but as soon as the turkey is placed on the table and meat preferences are vocalized, as soon as someone says, “I like the right wing!” - politics are introduced into the conversation. The cost of the turkey that year can lead to a discussion about inflation and President Biden’s role in the state of the economy.
And there is always that uncle, grandfather, father, brother, sister or aunt that doesn’t want to just talk politics - they want to tell you what you should think and believe. Avoiding talking about politics at a Thanksgiving gathers is a challenge.
When we look back on what we do know about that first Thanksgiving in November of 1621 and we think about how different the New Settlers and the Native Americans were, it is admirable that they actually came together and bonded over the idea of giving thanks. Both groups looked differently from each other, they had totally different customs and backgrounds and their perspectives on life were foreign to each other, but they came together and gave thanks.
When I think about how different the New Settlers and the Native Americans were and how they put their differences aside and came together to give thanks, which established the first Thanksgiving, I can’t help but think that Republicans and Democrats can come together in 2022 and put their differences aside and give thanks for all we should be grateful for as Americans.
Happy Thanksgiving,
Scoot
